send user activation link only after they have visited a specific page. i want user to register but then after completing registration it takes them to a page (so i will need to know how to redirect users to another page after register.php page)and from the other page they will fill out a form i have that will take them to the page that they need to goto to have activate link sent. (without visiting this page the link will not be sent)
You need this feature: you code it (or hire someone to code it for you). Don't expect to be spoon-fed.